Here are some great options for a first date, depending on what kind of vibe you want to create:
1. Coffee Shop first date
- Why: Casual and low-pressure. It’s easy to chat over a coffee or tea, and it gives you an “out” if things aren’t clicking.
- Tip: Choose a cozy spot with comfy seating and good ambiance.
2. Walk in a Park first date
- Why: Nature is calming, and walking side-by-side is a relaxed way to get to know each other without the intensity of direct eye contact.
- Tip: Pick a scenic or well-kept park with benches, trails, or a nice view.
3. Art Gallery or Museum first date
- Why: There’s a lot to talk about as you explore, and it’s ideal if you want a mix of intellectual and casual conversation.
- Tip: Find a smaller, lesser-known gallery for a quieter experience.
4. Escape Room first date
- Why: For something memorable and unique! Escape rooms create teamwork, laughter, and break the ice naturally.
- Tip: Keep it light by choosing a moderately challenging room so you’re not too stressed.
5. Bookstore or Record Shop
- Why: It’s quirky, chill, and allows you to learn about each other’s tastes. Plus, there are usually little corners to sit and chat.
- Tip: Look for a shop with a café attached for more chatting options.
6. Rooftop Bar or Scenic View Spot first date
- Why: It’s romantic without being too formal, and a great view sets a beautiful tone.
- Tip: Choose a place with cozy seating and a laid-back vibe so you can focus on each other.
7. Cooking Class or Workshop
- Why: Fun and interactive! Cooking together or doing an activity gives you both something to focus on if nerves kick in.
- Tip: Try a beginner-friendly class so it stays lighthearted.
My personal recommendation is to meet in the day & go for a walk.
Forget the drinks. Keep it sober.
Limit the time & don’t ask too many questions. It’s not an interview.
A nice walk in the park or by some water & maybe a coffee & a light bite. No rush.
If all goes well, or even if you’ve not made up your mind- arrange a second date.