Lori Gottlieb is an American author who talks on her youtube videos of the biggest problem with Dating Apps.
She talks about the need for immediate attraction and how it just isn’t realistic.
She talks about the old fashioned way of being friends first, about knowing the person, rather than just judging by digital images 7 then expecting butterflies on the first meeting and ending up being constantly disappointed.
Lori talks about the illusion of choice. Of juggling one person with the next.
She talks about being realistic. Going for coffee & not making an immediate judgement. About having several dates.
I can’t upload her youtube channel here for legal reasons, but you can easily find it.
(Contact me if you need help doing this).
It’s well worth a watch.