Set a target for yourself!
Successful people set targets and goals for themselves in many areas of their lives. Why not do this for dating? If, for example, you set a target of 20 dates to get one that suits, wouldn’t that be better than just ploughing on with no real intention or thoughts? You could make that 10 dates. […]
Take the Blinkers off Your Eyes….
Take the blinkers off your eyes… The powers in your hands… The lyrics of a favourite song of mine from when I was young. “But the truth is that whatever or whoever you want is really out there, but you might actually need to take your blinkers off!” You might not be seeing the full […]
What to discuss on a First Date!
What shouldn’t you discuss on a first date? Politics. Religion. Ex partners! Keep your discussions light on your first date. First dates are all about getting to know each other, so keeping the conversation light, open, and positive is key. So what SHOULD you talk about? Your hobbies- Talk about what you both enjoy doing […]
There’s Someone For Everyone!
An old friend of mine once said to me that there’s someone for everyone and never has a truer word been said. It is a beautiful and optimistic way to think about relationships. Believing that there’s someone out there for everyone highlights the uniqueness of each person and the possibility of finding someone who genuinely […]
Who is giving you relationship advice?
Who is giving you relationship advice? Unfortunately everybody has an opinion about relationships! Even if they’ve not really had one! And if they’ll all offering YOU advise, who should you listen to? Who gives you relationship advice matters a lot because not all advice is created equal, and relationships are deeply personal and complex. The […]
Your Darkest Secret!
Whatever your age. You’ll have baggage. Whatever the age of your date. They’ll have baggage. But a first date isn’t the time to unload all that baggage. Yes, you might want to be honest, to be up front with your date, especially if you like them. But, bare in mind you might put them off […]
Differences can be good for you!
Have you read the book “My Mum and Dad Make Me Laugh,” by Nick Sharratt. If you’ve not read this book you should do. It’s all about a child’s parents being different. Dad loves stripes. Mum loves spots. It’s the same in my relationship. I’ve been very happily married for over 20 years. And yet […]
Come On! Make an effort!
Imagine the scenario…. You’re single and you’ve got a date tonight. This date is in fact the partner of your dreams. You have one chance to make an effort! What should you do? You already know the answer. You will present the best side of yourself tonight. 100%. You will approach this person with confidence. […]
What kind of date do you want?
We’ve all heard the expression PUNCHING ABOVE YOUR WEIGHT “Punching above your weight” in dating is a term that usually means dating someone who is perceived as being “out of your league.” This idea stems from a self-limiting belief that someone is somehow less attractive, interesting, or successful than their partner. Here’s why this mindset […]
The Importance of Safety
You should be able to enjoy your date & stay safe. Remember you don’t know this person yet, be friendly but don’t give away an personal details. You can always arrange another date. You should arrange another date- it’s too early to judge. Don’t have too much to drink. Meet in the afternoon or early […]